On Facebook, Privacy and Sharing
Monday, May 24, 2010 at 12:31PM There has been a bit of a flurry around Facebook privacy lately. I'm guessing if you have been online for more than an hour over the past two weeks, you may have heard about it. Comments (current and past) from Facebook's CEO haven't exactly quelled the flames (although this statement at least concedes an effort to change).
To me, the bigger issue is not privacy, but why there is such dependence on Facebook to provide it. Some elements of privacy, of course, are no brainers. Anything required to be a member of Facebook (i.e. email) should be protected. There a ton of privacy settings on photos and location. Other settings let you keep your content behind a wall, accessible by only the people you want (i.e. lists). Granted, the settings change often, but it's not that difficult to stay on top of them.
So, I guess I'm wondering when Facebook became a babysitter for your content. Let's assume instead of a social network, Facebook was a t-shirt you owned. Would you wear a t-shirt mentioning your DUI, a controversial political view, a rambling status update, your relationship status? If the answer is no, then the chances are pretty good that you shouldn't have that information appear on Facebook.
I understand it's a bit extreme of a view, but choosing to share is a choice, and Facebook cannot be responsible for the choices that you make within their platform. Facebook (or any other social network) cannot and shouldn't have to save you from sharing something that may later prove to be embarassing or inappropriate, whether it is a family member, co-worker or friend that ends up reading it.
This may be the most obvious blog post I've ever written. It has been my reaction during this whole privacy debate, but for some reason, Facebook seems to be shouldering the blame for a privacy failure that ultimate falls on its users.
Note: It's been a bit quiet here lately, unless you count the minidisco, my Posterous blog that is now feeding live into the DISCOBETA feed. Sorry for the quiet and thanks for sticking with me.
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